Tag: Relationships

• February 18, 2010

  The Proper Use of Desire

  Desire is not a character flaw to be managed. It is one of the most powerful creative forces available to you — when directed well. The daily practice of inner…

• February 15, 2010

  The Three-Dimensional Hole of Self-Will

  There is an order to things. When your life feels like it is falling apart — when financial hardship arrives, relationships break, and the world shifts around you — the…

• February 14, 2010

  Instinctual Triggers and the Time-Out Signal

  Every relationship has sensitive areas — places where even a gentle conversation can hit an instinctual chord and trigger a reactive response neither person planned for. Learning to navigate those…

• February 11, 2010

  The Practice: Calm, Thoughtful Reflection on Relationships

  The paradox at the heart of spiritual growth is this: the more honestly you look at your weaknesses — your patterns in relationships, your recurring blind spots, your default behaviors…

• February 7, 2010

  Like Begets Like

  We are wired for connection. The desire to find and be with a true mate — someone whose frequency matches our own, who sees us clearly and is seen clearly…