Tag: Triggers

• March 16, 2013

  How To Get The Partners in Our Relationships Make the Change We Would Like Them To Make

  Every relationship has issues — places where partners need each other to grow, change, or show up differently. But most attempts to address those issues end badly: in defensiveness, in…

• March 2, 2013

  Negative Self-Talk & How We Counter It With God’s Help

  Where are you headed? If you have been doing the work of recovery and spiritual growth long enough, you are moving toward something specific: a life where there is no…

• November 24, 2012

  TLC Application: Holidays and Emotional Trauma

  Year after year, the holiday season arrives with its warmth and its weight. For people doing the work of spiritual growth and recovery, this can be the most intense time…

• May 10, 2012

  TLC Application: Soundness Of Mind

  What does it actually mean to come to soundness of mind? For many of us, our minds have been running on negative self-talk for so long that we don’t even…

• May 7, 2012

  TLC Assignment May 2-8, 2012 “Yesterday’s Ghosts and the Humility Journal”

  There are two kinds of self-deception that can quietly run our lives. The first is the kind that attaches powerful emotions to situations that have not been validated as real…