Tag: Trauma

• June 12, 2011

  TLC Application 06|12|2011 “Investing Our Energy”

  Every day you make hundreds of small decisions about where to place your attention, your time, and your emotional investment. Most of us make those decisions on autopilot — reacting…

• June 11, 2011

  TLC Application 06|11|2011 “Beware Of Emotional Transference”

  One of the most subtle ways we sabotage our present happiness is by dragging past pain into today’s relationships. We do not always do it intentionally — in fact, we…

• June 9, 2011

  TLC Application 06|09|2011 “Triggers”

  Have you ever ended a conversation feeling worse than when it started, even though nothing in your own life changed? That unsettling shift may not be a sign that something…

• June 2, 2010

  Daily Application June 3, 2010 Guilt…

  Guilt is one of the most familiar feelings in the human emotional vocabulary — and one of the most misunderstood. Most people treat guilt as either a signal to be…

• May 29, 2010

  Daily Application May 30, 2010 Perspective on Devastating Weakness

  What is your devastating weakness? Not in the abstract, not philosophically — what is yours, specifically, in the way your inner life actually works? Most people have never answered that…