Tag: Relationships

• December 22, 2011

  Why the Holidays Hit Differently

  The holidays are supposed to be a time of joy, connection, and celebration. But for many people, they are something else entirely — a season when old wounds resurface, when…

• August 5, 2011

  “What Is A Surrender To Someone Not Addicted?”

  Surrender is a word most people associate with addiction recovery. But look at your own life honestly, and you will find that you have already experienced multiple forms of surrender…

• July 7, 2011

  The Relationship Between Anxiety and Planning

  Fear and anxiety do not arise from the presence of problems. They arise from the absence of a plan. The moment you have a clear, realistic plan of action for…

• July 5, 2011

  Two Ends of the Same Spectrum

  Most of us do not notice the drift until we are already far from shore. We did not make one big dramatic decision to abandon our spiritual practices or disconnect…

• June 30, 2011

  Unreasoned Distortion of Judgment

  Most self-sabotage does not look like self-sabotage from the inside. It looks like a justified reaction to an unjust situation. It looks like finally standing up for yourself. It feels…