Tag: Relationships

• June 29, 2010

  Fault-Finding Is a Projection

  Have you noticed how easy it is to become irritated by other people’s failures to follow rules that you follow? Someone runs a stop sign. Someone parks in a handicapped…

• June 2, 2010

  Getting Others’ Approval to Get Your Own

  Guilt is one of the most familiar feelings in the human emotional vocabulary — and one of the most misunderstood. Most people treat guilt as either a signal to be…

• May 29, 2010

  The Ego’s Preference for Drama

  Negative thoughts do not return because you are weak or spiritually deficient. They return because of a pattern — a groove in the mind that was cut long before you…

• May 24, 2010

  This Is for My Life, Not My Conditions

  Making amends is one of the most misunderstood actions in spiritual growth. Most people either avoid it entirely — because accountability feels like exposure and vulnerability — or they perform…

• May 16, 2010

  Bankruptcy as Surrender

  There is a form of bankruptcy that has nothing to do with finances. It is the spiritual bankruptcy that precedes genuine surrender — the moment when a person’s internal resources,…