Tag: God

• May 24, 2010

  Anchor to a Value System, Not a List of Rules

  Most people approach “setting boundaries” as a social skill — something you learn to say to difficult people in order to protect yourself. But that framing misses the deeper truth:…

• May 16, 2010

  Bankruptcy as Surrender

  There is a form of bankruptcy that has nothing to do with finances. It is the spiritual bankruptcy that precedes genuine surrender — the moment when a person’s internal resources,…

• May 13, 2010

  The Warped Mind We Cannot See

  Most people have never honestly asked themselves this question: what is my mind actually like? Not what they wish it were like, not how they present it to others —…

• April 13, 2010

  The 51% Rule

  There is a quiet drain on most people’s energy that goes unnoticed: the habit of living primarily in what is not yet here or what has already gone. We spend…

• April 2, 2010

  Questioning Causes Distance

  Most people do not realize how much they question. Not just the obvious doubts — the “should I stay in this job?” or “is this the right relationship?” — but…