Tag: Ego

• March 16, 2013

  How To Get The Partners in Our Relationships Make the Change We Would Like Them To Make

  Every relationship has issues — places where partners need each other to grow, change, or show up differently. But most attempts to address those issues end badly: in defensiveness, in…

• February 8, 2013

  Negative Self Talk and how we counter it with God’s Help

  There is a voice in most of us that is far more destructive than any external critic. It is the voice of pride in reverse — the one that does…

• May 7, 2012

  TLC Assignment May 2-8, 2012 “Yesterday’s Ghosts and the Humility Journal”

  There are two kinds of self-deception that can quietly run our lives. The first is the kind that attaches powerful emotions to situations that have not been validated as real…

• April 19, 2012

  TLC Application VOCABULARY Find ‘Enjoyment’ in Your Life

  The words we use do not just describe our experience — they shape it. The vocabulary you choose is, in a very real sense, the filter through which you process…

• February 24, 2012

  TLC Assignment 2/22-28/2012 “Character/Comfort, New Character/Old Character”

  Every day, in dozens of small moments, you face a choice between two versions of yourself. One version chooses what is comfortable — familiar, low-effort, and quietly self-centered. The other…