Tuesday, May 25, 2010
“Setting boundaries”…
We don’t set boundaries… We anchor to a value system.
It is the responsibility of the giver to stop giving to takers. Givers don’t carry a list of what they’ve given. From the realm of business to personal: “What in me keeps perpetuating bringing a taker into my life?” It is imposing your instincts on others…
Dependency on someone else’s approval: Let it go.
Establish a value system. It is between you and God. Get them out of your secret place.
Highlights from March 30, 2008
Talk about a reality check!!! I love this…As you have always taught me, “givers need to be with givers”…
It is so true…and the value system with GOD…beautiful….:)
Just what I needed for today. Wow. Kevin G. in South Dakota
This is great because it applies to my life today and is something i am working on in my life this week. between God and I this person shouldn’t be in my life and many a intuitive thought have let me too believe this.
Problem is my will and codependency is trying to hang on to this “friendship” which is not condusive to my growth… I am searching for a way to gently let this person know that it is unhealthy for me to engage. And for myself not to reengage with selfish motive.
-A