Learn what it means to grow up on an emotional level. Learn how immature people are those who live in trauma.  Learn how to expose and deal with the emotional damage that happened to us when we were children. Learn how grandiosity keeps us from seeing our failings which becomes a true block that keeps us living in our injured minds. We have warped our minds and this is why we need to build a new character with no reference to our old lives.  It is important to stop reliving out past to build a new future.

Learn to see when you are living emotionally and mentally in the past so you can offer our thoughts, feelings and actions to God. Then the Divine helps us rewrite the story of our lives so that we can see the assets and gain greater understanding of how all these troubles lead us to make a positive change by building a new. Once we live our lives in the bondage of selfishness, we warp our minds and will do anything to not feel the pain that we keep creating by living in the old character. Learn why you want to get sober, why attend meetings and do all the inner work.  This inner work helps us realize this is about becoming happy and whole by building a new life through building a new character.