Ken shows how when we feel anything disruptive or negative, we relive old memories of every other thing that has been similar to the disturbance. Like if we don’t feel we have been heard in life, the minute we think someone is ignoring or dismissing us all our old hurt memories come with that disturbance. The problem is most of the time we are just seeing the disturbance in the wrong light. It’s coming from deep untreated injured thinking we are not seeing the truth we have created another lie of being disrespect, insulted and now we are in remorse. We can even fall into hate on a dime. Then when we find out we were seeing and hearing the situation wrong we just sluff it off and never learn how to change and see the world from a loving place.